I have to agree with the person who said you must like abuse because you continually ask for it.

Remember this thread? http://www.pirate4x4.com/forum/showthread.php?t=387600&highlight=father

Sounds like something my X (my kid's father) would do. I think the lady and her kids need to get the hell out of that situation. It's for the best. I did.

he sounds like he's got the potential to be a real winner... and now she's back with him. smart girl. :rolleyes:

Love and Hate go hand in hand sometimes. Everyone has their own problems in relationships. Mine are just a little worse, but we're trying to fix them. It's not like none of you never gave someone another chance.

Love and Hate go hand in hand sometimes. Everyone has their own problems in relationships. Mine are just a little worse, but we're trying to fix them. It's not like none of you never gave someone another chance.

Give him another chance....Hmmmm .... What could he have possibly done....Ummmm....Cheated? Another chance all right......

Love Hate = LATE! Quit abuseing yourself. abusing abuse abuseing....aww fack! You know what I'm saying.

Give him another chance....Hmmmm .... What could he have possibly done....Ummmm....Cheated? Another chance all right......

Love Hate = LATE! Quit abuseing yourself. abusing abuse abuseing....aww fack! You know what I'm saying.

Ummmm....no. He's never cheated on me. Did you read what the kitten posted? :shaking:

Love and Hate go hand in hand sometimes. Everyone has their own problems in relationships. Mine are just a little worse, but we're trying to fix them. It's not like none of you never gave someone another chance.

Someone that hit me?? Choked me??? Spit on my face??? Are you f**king kidding me??? Dear gawd you are a total f**king moron. Are you THAT attention starved?? :roxy:

Ummmm....no. He's never cheated on me. Did you read what the kitten posted? :shaking:

Yeah OK....

All I have to say is good luck. Glad its not me....Been there done that.

Someone that hit me?? Choked me??? Spit on my face??? Are you f**king kidding me??? Dear gawd you are a total f**king moron. Are you THAT attention starved?? :roxy:

No just forgiving. If I was attentioned starved I would look everywhere else for attention. I love him only.

http://www.pirate4x4.com/forum/attachment.php?attachmentid=211092&stc=1&d=1129825172

:flipoff2:

Very nice....thank you.:D

No just forgiving. If I was attentioned starved I would look everywhere else for attention. I love him only.

Hey, all kidding aside... if he is hurting you, get out now. It's not right that he does it, and it will never be right. Granted... some girls I have met ask for it, but it still doesn't make it right. Is all this attention whoring a cry for help?
You need to leave his ass. If I lived near by I would show him a thing or two about proper conduct and he would get a severe ass kicking, and you would go straight to therapy!

If I was attentioned starved I would look everywhere else for attention.

:laughing::laughing::laughing:


Irony is apparently lost on the stupid.

:laughing:

WOW! I see lotsa stuff. Gotta read ...

BUT

I sure hope all american http://tinypic.com/eskabq.gif WannaPullMyPigtails is winning!

Hey, all kidding aside... if he is hurting you, get out now. It's not right that he does it, and it will never be right. Granted... some girls I have met ask for it, but it still doesn't make it right. Is all this attention whoring a cry for help?
You need to leave his ass. If I lived near by I would show him a thing or two about proper conduct and he would get a severe ass kicking, and you would go straight to therapy!

An ass kicking never taught him anything. He's gotten a few in my favor. The majority have been given from me. I'm small, but I have a fight in me like a dog.

An ass kicking never taught him anything. He's gotten a few in my favor. The majority have been given from me. I'm small, but I have a fight in me like a dog.

So does he hit you?

So does he hit you?

Not anymore. He has slapped me once.

Not anymore. He has slapped me once.


How long did you stay together with him after he hit you?

Not anymore. He has slapped me once.

I just can't help but think you earned it.

How long did you stay together with him after he hit you?

I'm still with him.

Not anymore. He has slapped me once.

Yeah.. my sister got slapped once. The next time he tried to slap her, he threw her across the room, broke her tailbone and her thumb. She started divorce papers within the hour.

Hopefully you'll learn from your mistakes, too...
before its too late. :(

I just can't help but think you earned it.

Thanks. :(

I'm still with him.

*pullingouthairbangingheadagainstwallbeinghelpless wantingtokillthisguybutIdontwanttogotojailagain*

So where are the videos?

:evil:

Hopefully you'll learn from your mistakes, too...
before its too late. :(


She certainly hasn't exhibited that particular skill too well here.

In another thread...

http://www.pirate4x4.com/forum/showthread.php?t=404336&page=3

He hit her once, threw her down, spit in her face, etc.

Thanks. :(

If you are even 1/2 as annoying in person as you are on here I would hate to be around you.

Thanks. :(


ONCE is too many.......no matter what! A guy hit my sister one time in front of me and I ended up in jail for breaking the little bastards arm with a baseball bat!
Your too pretty for him any way..........Girl find a real man!

that guy is a douchebag. A man should never lay an angry hand on a woman.

either you like being slapped around, or you really are that stoopid. You really think he'll never do it again?? You really think it will stop at one smack?

not to mention, if he's violent with you, what's to say he's not going to be violent with your daughter? think about that for a minute.

Nice picture of you. You look pretty hot....too bad you're such a dumbass. I can appreciate you trying to work things out cuz you have a child together. But, then I read about how you to behave around each other and I feel sorry for the kid. .....the cycle continues??? Is this how you were raised???

BTW WertzyMom is just hotter.....I don't think many are saying you are not hot.....just saying she is hotter here on the computer screen. No need to get all hurt about it.

......Oh wait, I believe the thread starter correctly anticipated your response. ....another pattern continuing???

Can't wait to see you guys on COPS.

Your too pretty for him any way..........Girl find a real man! I have to disagree with this statement as a whole. Just because someone is attractive, doesn't mean they are too good for someone else. As we have learned here, pretty on the outside doesn't mean pretty on the inside. If they are not pretty on the inside then it can make a person pretty unattractive in my book. ;)

either you like being slapped around, or you really are that stoopid. You really think he'll never do it again?? You really think it will stop at one smack?

I'm hoping. I really want things to work out and I realize that it may seem stupid. But, him and my daughter mean the world to me.

Nice picture of you. You look pretty hot....too bad you're such a dumbass. I can appreciate you trying to work things out cuz you have a child together. But, then I read about how you to behave around each other and I feel sorry for the kid. .....the cycle continues??? Is this how you were raised???

BTW WertzyMom is just hotter.....I don't think many are saying you are not hot.....just saying she is hotter here on the computer screen. No need to get all hurt about it.

......Oh wait, I believe the thread starter correctly anticipated your response. ....another pattern continuing???

Can't wait to see you guys on COPS.

We never argue in front of her.

psssst Kids KNOW. Did you know when you were growing up?

psssst Kids KNOW. Did you know when you were growing up?

No, my parents rarely argued (my mom and step-dad anyway, I never saw my dad cause he was a drug-addict asshole who cheated on my mom :mad3:), but when they did argue it was never in front of us. I think I heard them once in the bedroom, but that was it.

I'm hoping. I really want things to work out and I realize that it may seem stupid. But, him and my daughter mean the world to me.

So how much do you and your daughter mean to HIM?
Apparently not enough to not hit you.
Apparently not enough to not spit in your face.
Apparently not enough to not smoke illegal drugs.
Apparently not enough.



look. Not bagging on you, just wanting you to reconsider your choices in life - especially with him. No matter how annoying you may or may not be, no matter how not you may or may not be... there is no reason to stay with a man that beats you. Period.

I'm hoping. I really want things to work out and I realize that it may seem stupid. But, him and my daughter mean the world to me.

NO. wrong answer!! you daughter is ALWAYS #1. ALWAYS!!! Don't ever put any man before or equal to your children!! You are apparently all she has. I just hope it's enough. I guarantee you he will hit you again. If she ever sees him hit you it's considered child abuse, just keep that in mind.

I'm hoping. I really want things to work out and I realize that it may seem stupid. But, him and my daughter mean the world to me.


Hope is a risky word when you have you and your daughters safety in jeapardy.

That's what I was thinking. There is a pattern here. Your mom figured a way out of it (sounds like round 2 was a better choice). I bet your dad is still the same ass he was then. Get out. Think about the kind of people you are attracted to and why. Seriously, you would benifit from some counseling. You are gonna wind up being another cute little train wreck...and the cute part wears off in time...if you don't make some changes.

That's what I was thinking. There is a pattern here. Your mom figured a way out of it (sounds like round 2 was a better choice). I bet your dad is still the same ass he was then. Get out. Think about the kind of people you are attracted to and why. Seriously, you would benifit from some counseling. You are gonna wind up being another cute little train wreck...and the cute part wears off in time...if you don't make some changes.

Choice 2 was not a better choice.

Are You Fucking Kidding Me!!!


Gawd!!!

You are amazing...

:rolleyes:

Damn, I wound up posting this in the wrong hijacked poor me, I'm gonna lay out my personal life everywhere but listen to no ones advice thread, I'll copy it over...


You are young, and with that inexperience comes the desire to experience life for yourself. People tell ya their experience and give you advise, but you always think you can do it different, or that won't happen to me, etc. That would be all fine and well if you didn't have a child. The moment that you decided to have that child you gave up a certain amount of your freedom to "learn as you go". It is your responsibility to keep that child safe and in a healthy environment, that means you cannot take the risks that most 20 year olds are free to take and then learn from. An abusive, alcoholic, pot smoking, man is not a father, but a sperm donor, this "family" is doomed from the start. I hope you and your daughter fair well, but I have my doubts. Please listen to the advice you have been given here and elsewhere. Take care of yourself and that baby!!!

Choice 2 was not a better choice.

Bet he was abusive??? You demonstrate all the signs that you were raised in a bad situation. Kids that go thru that repeat it. There is a reason they call it a cycle. You are living it, and you are setting your daughter up to live it right behind you.

Quit being a dipshit for her sake, if not your own.

If money is the problem, don't let that stop you. There are lot's of programs out there to help get girls out of this cycle.

Think about the kind of people you are attracted to and why.

BINGO. She is attracted to people just like her father, abusive addicts. Guess what?! You letting your daughter around that pot smoking peice of garbage is going to result in one thing: another peice of worthless shit (like yourself) in our society.

It's funny how repetitive the cycle is.

You want to find a decent guy, can't help you with that. But one thing is for sure, if you are attracted to him... run don't walk.

Bet he was abusive??? You demonstrate all the signs that you were raised in a bad situation. Kids that go thru that repeat it. There is a reason they call it a cycle. You are living it, and you are setting your daughter up to live it right behind you.

Quit being a dipshit for her sake, if not your own.

If money is the problem, don't let that stop you. There are lot's of programs out there to help get girls out of this cycle.

Money's not an issue. I'm helping him pay off fines as we speak.

why? maybe you should start a college fund for your kid instead. :rolleyes:

why? maybe you should start a college fund for your kid instead. :rolleyes:

I have. :flipoff2:

My coworkers are wondering why I'm laughing over here. This is why.

Noice! So he is being nice while he needs you. Bet he smacks your ass as soon as his ass is no longer pointed at jail.

Jesus kiddo.....he's gotta go, or you gotta go. Get your kid outa there.

Money's not an issue. I'm helping him pay off fines as we speak.

And you reward his behavior by paying his fines off? The whole point of being fined is so the fined person pays for it themself, and learns a lesson.

And you reward his behavior by paying his fines off? The whole point of being fined is so the finee pays for it themself, and learns a lesson.

So, he can get back on his feet. He isn't very good with money, so I'm helping him budget. He gets CA fines taken out automatically from his paycheck, but he went to prison in WA, so I'm making sure he stays on top of those. They gain interest fast.

edit - guess I'm too slow. :rolleyes:

ya know, if you invest $100 per month from the time you're 20 till you're 60, in mutual funds averaging 12%, you'll be a millionaire when you retire.

if you invest $$ in loser assholes, you'll get your ass kicked. nice.

What, b day in December? Sign of Sagittarius?

but he went to prison in WA

...and it just keeps getting better.:rolleyes: :shaking:

What, b day in December? Sign of Sagittarius?

16...yes

Fuck it. Just stay with him and reserve your seat on the Jerry Springer show.

You are not hearing a damn thing. I poked around in some other threads...do you think it's a coincedence that every MF on this board is telling you the same thing???

So, he can get back on his feet. He isn't very good with money, so I'm helping him budget. He gets CA fines taken out automatically from his paycheck, but he went to prison in WA, so I'm making sure he stays on top of those. They gain interest fast.

Is he the kind of guy that gets loud if he has to do something he doesn't want to right now?

Is he the kind of guy that gets loud if he has to do something he doesn't want to right now?


I'm sorry I thought this was about boobs? How the hell did we get on this soap box?
WPMPT- I'm sure there's another room for girls like you...........
NO SYMPATHY HERE
YOU STAY
YOU DESERVE:flipoff2:

This thread has went from a titty fight(:grinpimp: ] to some dumbass trying to turn it into a queer fest and now it's looks like the Dear Abby column :shaking:

I'm sorry I thought this was about boobs? How the hell did we get on this soap box?
WPMPT- I'm sure there's another room for girls like you...........
NO SYMPATHY HERE
YOU STAY
YOU DESERVE:flipoff2:

Thank CruiserKitten. I didn't bring it up. :flipoff2:

Remember this thread? http://www.pirate4x4.com/forum/showthread.php?t=387600&highlight=father



he sounds like he's got the potential to be a real winner... and now she's back with him. smart girl. :rolleyes:

16, cool!! :smokin: 15.

All I wanna abby is this: Jen, your a very intelligent girl. But, you are too nice. Thats not a compliment, but a flaw. It should be different, but unfortunately that's life. Don't expect the world to be like you, accept the world being what it is.

I hate it when kids get whatEVER they want. :rolleyes: It turns into teen that think even in life they can do wtevr, get stuck, go to jail, can't pay bills on time.
They always think, someone (mommy or daddy) will fix it. Right now this person is you for him. You don'T need 2 KIDS!:p

You being nice to other "nice" people will NOT get them out of a situation. You can't help or change ANYONE. Not even your kid.

People can only change themselves. You doing anything but leaving if he doesn't shape up within ONE WEEK, (That means: Job, paying stuff off, not buying ANYTHING else shaved and UP by 6:30 no matter what there is to do) following:

If he doesn't do this, YOU WILL BE 30 before you realize what train hit you. Get the fawk OUT girl, noone BUT YOURSELF can change. Echo in here?

love to you and your kid! But be a big girl now. We got your back!


And back to them bewbers: :D

Jen, noone can see a THING on that dark picture. :flipoff2:

Opinions are like assholes. :flipoff2:
What are they when everyone has the same one?

Let me add---why I care, I don't know....maybe it's that sweet little girl whose life is in your hands.

It is great that you think this guy has a chance at getting better. I was arrogant enough, more than once, to think that I could "fix" and "help" someone that I loved. The first hit you think you can forgive...what happens when your daughter is old enough to see the next one? And the one after that.

Staying for a child is a pathetic excuse to hang on for your own selfish reasons. You are dooming your daughter to make your own mistakes. Unless you pull your head out of your ass, and get away you are putting her in harms way. Starting out by carrying some losers ass is a sure sign that you need acceptance. Sort out your relationship with your dad, with with him or within yourself and you'll see this loser is just that---see yourself as deserving and others will too.

What are they when everyone has the same one?

Just one big asshole. ;)

No just forgiving.

Nicole Simpson said the same thing, look how far it got her.

You really are a dumbfuck:rolleyes:

Yeah, yeah, good words, but

Were's the side view bewber pics? Gotta be comparable to wertyzmom posts in position.

Because, wertyzmom right now is winning.

And damage your so dumb its scroll past ya time.

No, Just forgiving
It isn't forgiving, it is begging for acceptance. You don't forgive someone for hitting you, for spitting on you. There is no place for forgiveness--- respect is number one. You can't forgive someone and make respect come back---if there ever was any to begin with....which I doubt.
Who is more important--you or your daughter?

Let me add---
...

Wow, I wish more girls had the "balls" to be like you.

It isn't forgiving, it is begging for acceptance. You don't forgive someone for hitting you, for spitting on you. There is no place for forgiveness--- respect is number one. You can't forgive someone and make respect come back---if there ever was any to begin with....which I doubt.
Who is more important--you or your daughter?

My daughter. I think he would be a really good father to her. He loves her so much. He realizes he made a mistake with me, but he wants to make up for it. I want her to have 2 loving parents; that is what we're aiming for.

I think he would be a really good father to her. He loves her so much. He realizes he made a mistake with me, but he wants to make up for it. I want her to have 2 loving parents; that is what we're aiming for.

:rolleyes: :rolleyes:

Does he have a job?

edit

We never argue in front of her.

Kids don't listen anyways. They learn from patterns. Their smarter than you think, and may not understand whats going on, but learn: that is life.

:rolleyes: :rolleyes:

Does he have a job?

edit



Kids don't listen anyways. They learn from patterns. Their smarter than you think, and may not understand whats going on, but learn: that is life.

Ya, he's a car crusher at a recycling place. :D

My daughter. I think he would be a really good father to her.


Yep.. He'll be a real good father from behind bars what with the drug conviction coupled with the assault conviction.

Ya, he's a car crusher at a recycling place. :D


Helpful tip that may save your life one day: Do not visit him at work after hours, when everyone else has gone home.

Ya, he's a car crusher at a recycling place. :D

not to be mean or to hit on certain "junk"jards, what kind of boyfriend do you wish for your daugter when she is 18? <-- 18 see, I wrote it. You win WertysMom on the sexual consent age discussion. :rolleyes:

:)

Ahem, bewbers? :zzz:

And I meant job, not immigrant level work (non racist comment, just statistically)

There will be no more bewbers... ;)



:rolleyes:

Helpful tip that may save your life one day: Do not visit him at work after hours, when everyone else has gone home.

I bring him dinner all the time. He works nights. 10 hour shifts. He doesn't get off until about 2:30am, so I don't get to see him as much as I'd like to, but when I do we have fun. :flipoff2:

There will be no more bewbers... ;)

I got it I got it! :beer: :-)

I bring him dinner all the time. He works nights. 10 hour shifts. He doesn't get off until about 2:30am, so I don't get to see him as much as I'd like to, but when I do we have fun. :flipoff2:

Lotsa time to spend with your kid as a good father with that job?

I got it it got it! :beer: :-)



Lotsa time to spend with your kid as a good father with that job?

If I don't have her he does. A babysitter (a mutual friend of ours mom) has her for a couple hours in between, until I get off work. But, during the weekend all 3 of us are together.

well isn't that sweet.


yup, I brought it up. I'll take full blame on this one. Should I have started my own thread? You have problems leaving don't you. ;) ... him and this place.