: Johnathan Tisdale-update (low rover content)


Jtisdale
07-06-2007, 06:10 AM
OS-delete or move this if you like.

I just wanted to leave everyone a follow-up message to Pete's voicemail to the Columbia reps. As some of you know, Amy and I had planned to spend the 4th of July holiday at Lake Norman with our families and enjoy some time off. Monday was like any other normal day, I took my son out on the jet ski, we went fishing, I mountain biked with two close friends for a few hours. Things changed on Monday evening. Shortly after dinner I went in the back bedroom to return a phone call and check email, the last thing I remember was closing my laptop after doing so. The next thing I know I'm on a stretcher being loaded onto an ambulance headed for the hospital. According to my mother, who was in the house, on the way back to the porch I started to stumble before getting to the door and collapsed onto the floor and began having a seizure.



Once at the hospital, I received a CT scan of my head and it was evident that I had an edema on the left parietal lobe of my brain and that an MRI would be needed to determine what was causing the edema. Later that evening I was transferred down to Presbyterian Hospital in Charlotte and the following morning I received an MRI which discovered what my doctor suspected was the likely culprit, a tumor. I have been at Presbyterian since Monday night and am having a brain biopsy (ha ha very funny, they aren't taking the whole thing) Friday around 1PM. My doctor is Tony Asher of Carolina Neurosurgery and Spine and from everything I can gather he is one of the best tumor specialists in the region. After the biopsy, they will be able to confirm 100% that is a tumor and if it is cancerous or not. He has also told me that, although he is an aggressive doctor, in his mind this is not an operable situation. The tumor has developed what he termed as "roots" and that it would be difficult and potentially dangerous to try and remove; he noted that it appeared from the MRI to be a slow growing tumor and that it could have even been there for a while. The course of action will probably either be radiation or chemotherapy, or a combination of both depending on what the pathology reveals. Those results will probably be available Tuesday or Wednesday.



I will most likely be in Charlotte awaiting the pathology results and follow up with Dr Asher sometime mid week next week.



Obviously this is a shocking situation that I would have never seen coming, however, I can tell you that I am at total peace with my situation and that I am confident in my healing. There is still quite a bit of unknown and uncertainty surrounding the immediate future but I am not worried about that; the outpouring of love and support has been incredible. I've had a dozen or so close friends drive from Augusta and other cities to check in and hang out for a few hours and then drive back home, and generally there has been no less that four people visiting me at one time. The number of phone calls, emails, and visits has been incredible and I thank everyone for the support and love, it means more than you guys know.



Most importantly for me to share at this time is my faith in God. Some of you may know the spiritual side of me and many probably don't and that has been on my heart lately, even before all of this. Here are a few examples of why I know that God has lead me to this point as an opportunity for me share my faith and reach out to others. First, He brought us to Charlotte this weekend when all of this happened and I was near people who could immediately help me, including one of the best neurosurgeons available. Other examples that are harder for me to think about include the jet ski adventure I took earlier that morning with my 3 year old son Whitt, I can't bear to think about what would have happened if I had started a seizure out on the water with him on the back of the jet ski. As I mentioned I went mountain biking in the woods for a couple of hours, I could have easily suffered a major injury from blacking out while traveling at high speeds down through tight trees. Additionally, to get to the trails and back home I drove a half hour on the highway where I could have seriously injured or killed not only myself but innocent people around me. Rather I was at my parents condo and although I banged up my face some, injuries were minor in light of what I had done and usually do throughout a normal day. This faith is what is sustaining me through what is going to be a difficult and possibly lengthy healing process.



On top of that, the support from my home church and friends has been incredible and to hear about prayer chains going out to other cities and churches from relatives, friends, nurses, co-workers, ect. has been incredible and very uplifting. I definitely get the feeling that there is something much larger at work here and all I can do is share my story.



My dad has set up a carepages link to my progress, if anyone wants to get an update they will be posted here.



http://www.carepages.com/Register?seed=171330&ClusterNodeID=jb06&tlcx1=default



Thanks again to everyone who has called, emailed, visited, prayed, or otherwise cared for me during this situation.



Sincerely,



Johnathan

PTSchram
07-06-2007, 06:46 AM
Tis:
Although I haven't met you (but did get to work on your power steering stuff at Pendy's), my thoughts and prayers are with you.

At times like this, our faith, however we may define it, is the only thing that we can take comfort from. What can be thrown at us that we can't handle if we have faith? NOTHING.

Godspeed!

I'll be sure to add you to my mother in law's church's prayer list.

Best wishes, get better and get back on the trail so I can meet you face to face.

PT

Serious One
07-06-2007, 07:31 AM
Tis,

A short note...I'm heading out the door.

Wow! Wake up time isn't it! My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

You have the right attitude I think, and your faith will be a great blessing in years to come.

Let us know if there is ANYTHING we can do.

Take care,

Mike

Greg Davis
07-06-2007, 08:06 AM
'Tis, I just found out about this yesterday, and to sit here and read your post says volumes about your courage and faith. With this attitude, all will be well, regardless of the outcome. I think we can all learn something from your strength and faith.

You'll be added to our prayer-list this week.

Take care.:beer::beer:

Can you even have beer right now?:p

mightymg1
07-06-2007, 08:20 AM
Tis, I also havent met you however we share many of the same rover friends. MY prayers are also with you, Im sure everything will turn out fine, stay strong. If us west coast-erners can ever do anything for you LET US KNOW!

Good luck

Lane

aloharover
07-06-2007, 08:25 AM
Thoughts and prayers are with you Tis.

Pete

cptyarderho
07-06-2007, 08:35 AM
Godspeed on your recovery.

Way
07-06-2007, 08:49 AM
Tis,

My prayers will be with you and your family. If there is anything that any of us can do, just name it.

I am confident the He will give you peace that surpasses all understanding.

Way

lwg
07-06-2007, 08:54 AM
Wow! Your definitely in my thoughts. I very much believe in Karma and think that you likely have a lot of good Karma coming your way. You'll find your way through this and be stronger because of it.

DiscoDino
07-06-2007, 08:59 AM
Jonathan,

My family & I will pray for you and hope for a painless, fast recovery!

God Speed

Nadim Samara

ScottBowden
07-06-2007, 09:14 AM
Johnathan,

I really appreciate your positive outlook and in sharing your faith. You will gain even more strength as you, your family and friends focus on your healing through prayer.

I have considered you a friend since the evening we met at your home when swapping tires and Rover parts. Also after meeting your wife that evening, I know you have a solid rock of support to walk beside you during this trial.

I will let all of your friends in SolaRoS know of your situation so they can give their strength through prayers too.

krazz1e
07-06-2007, 11:22 AM
Good luck man, everything will be ok.

darkstar
07-06-2007, 12:40 PM
Our thoughts and get well wishes are with you. Stay strong :mr-t:

RedRhinoProducts
07-06-2007, 02:44 PM
I've never met you but I'm sure I remember a few cheekish comments being thrown out at me over the past couple of years. :) Your good sense of humor and your obivous faith in God will be your running gear my friend.

As the needles bored it into my skin for my own reason, I share it with you now for the same. HOLD FAST

- JM

Cirbo
07-06-2007, 05:10 PM
Greetings all,

For those who have registered and tried to log onto Johnathan's CarePage site, the name to enter when prompted is "jttisdale."

Thanks,

Jim

jimfoo
07-06-2007, 09:38 PM
And though I haven't met you, my thoughts and prayers are with you as well. Also, thought I don't know much about it, I remember a commercial for Rocky Mountain Cyberknife, which I think may be in a few other states as well. It is supposed to be an extremely focusable machine for radiation which I believe uses multiple beams from multiple angles to minimize damage to surrounding tissue.

pendy
07-06-2007, 11:12 PM
My heart goes out to you and your family.

You live your life as best you can and are an example to us all.

I hope you can stay with us for many years to come, especially for your family, and I take some comfort in your positive reaction to this adversity.

Please reach out to us if we can help you in any way during these times.
I would gladly help in any way I could.

Jim

PS This sucks-I'm counting on you to fight this.

Dougal
07-07-2007, 03:32 AM
Best of luck with the recovery.

Junkyddog11
07-07-2007, 05:41 AM
I'll be praying for you brother.

peace

rock90
07-07-2007, 07:53 AM
My thoughts and prayers are with you my friend

Ed

spork2367
07-07-2007, 10:06 AM
My family just went through a similar situation with my aunt, and an aneurysm that the doctors couldn't find and continued to bleed. She's in recovery now. Prayer works miracles. My prayers are with you and your family.

Nomar
07-07-2007, 07:28 PM
Wow, I'm at a loss for words. Our prayers are with you and perhaps like you said, this happened-where it happened- for a reason.
We'll be thinking of you.:(

Michele
07-09-2007, 01:26 AM
My best wishes,from the other side of the pond.

lwg
07-09-2007, 08:50 AM
Does anyone know the CarePage name? His link only takes you to registration for the CarePages.

Puffdragon
07-09-2007, 10:31 AM
Damn, you have popped up in like 3 of my dreams over the weekend. Well, I know you will fight, and provide a great example for us all.

Good luck my freind.

chrisvonc
07-09-2007, 03:13 PM
Does anyone know the CarePage name? His link only takes you to registration for the CarePages.
Jim C got the info:
For those who have registered and tried to log onto Johnathan's CarePage site, the name to enter when prompted is "jttisdale."

FAL
07-09-2007, 05:56 PM
I was there 16 years ago and I'm still around.
Your strong willpower and your belief will get you tru this.

fredd

FrankenRover
07-12-2007, 08:52 AM
Dang it Tis. Why is it that bad things happen to good people.

This frustrates and angers me.

The Ritchie Family's thoughts and hopes are with you.

The ironic thing is that I read this message during a neurosurgery operation. Did you get a biopsy done, and if so what was the result?

I'm going to pm you my cell number. Call me with any questions about whats going on.

Take care buddy, I am optimistic though, because something tells me you owe us alot more wheelin' trips :)

Bill

m016324
07-12-2007, 11:31 AM
yeah tis still need to wheel with you again one of these days. I know you'll be back from this soon. Best of luck and hope everything works out

-ben

Jtisdale
07-15-2007, 01:29 PM
[QUOTE=FrankenRover;7002789]Dang it Tis. Why is it that bad things happen to good people.

This frustrates and angers me.

The Ritchie Family's thoughts and hopes are with you.

The ironic thing is that I read this message during a neurosurgery operation. Did you get a biopsy done, and if so what was the result?

I'm going to pm you my cell number. Call me with any questions about whats going on.

Take care buddy, I am optimistic though, because something tells me you owe us alot more wheelin' trips :)

Thanks guys, at this point many decisions to decide between...which is a good thing cause I have options. Bill I did get your PM, I'd like your guys to take a look at my MRI if they don't mind. I'll PM you back, thanks.

Also, I will see you guys on the trail soon, unfortunately it will not be at the rally this year in Montrose. There goes my streak of almost ten years at that event.

Thanks for all the thoughts and prayers, all the support has made this relatively easy to this point.

Tis

DieLucas!
07-15-2007, 02:27 PM
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family!

If needed, I can sacrifice a chicken during the daily PoD ritual.

P.S. Steer clear of rogue troops of Girl Scouts!

lwg
07-15-2007, 08:17 PM
Also, I will see you guys on the trail soon, unfortunately it will not be at the rally this year in Montrose. There goes my streak of almost ten years at that event.

Tis

Well you've got the best reason yet to miss the rally. You'll be missed, but hopefully only for one year. Heck maybe this will give us a good reason to all head out to Las Cruces next year!

jbailey
07-15-2007, 08:34 PM
we have only met a couple of times (Uwharrie) It saddens me to hear this news. I admire how you travel with your son (and powerwheels) in tow.

My Sister battled and won against stage 4 cancer some of which was inoperable also. I Believe you are right about something bringing you to one of the best nuerosugeons in the field.

Keep those positive thoughts and My family and I will keep you in our prayers as well. Good Luck!!!

alivali
07-18-2007, 10:53 PM
Tis,

I just read this post as I am not over here much. My prayers are with you and your family. You have the ample attitude and toughness to fight this and I know you will. We will miss you at the rally bro.

Ali

73FJBUGGY
12-13-2011, 12:55 PM
I realize there hasn't been a post in this thread in years....I was just missing my friend Johnathan and reading his old posts in different threads. Reading them....I can hear his words. I live in Augusta, GA where Jonathan lived. We had lunch every Tues for about 3 years. I was there at Tellico when he climbed Guradrail in the D90 and almost had his backflop on Helicopter Pad. I also remember his transition from the D90 to the buggy. When I read him writing about these events, it just reminds me of our friendship. When he died in June this year, I felt such a loss, as I know many of you that knew him did as well. He helped me plan my buggy build over endless lunch strategy sessions. It saddens me that I never got to show him my buggy or take that trip out West with him that we planned.

I'm not writing this to bring you guys down, but rather to celebrate the way Jonathan lived and how his faith (a faith in God that I share) brought him peace. He died a man full of inner strength that can only be described as God given. I know he is in Heaven and that I will see him again in the next life :D

mike_belben
12-14-2011, 12:05 AM
^good post. its nice to see remembrance of those who've passed on.

73FJBUGGY
12-14-2011, 08:47 AM
^good post. its nice to see remembrance of those who've passed on.

Thanks, he is missed and yesterday was just one of those days that it was hitting me harder than normal.