Does anyone have a site that I can go to for a vin decoder, or maybe a email i can send it to (I know jeep has or had a email).

https://isuzusource.com/v2/vin_include.php

I've never tried it . . .

Told me it was a 1994 but that was it. Didnt even tell me the make model anything, thinking maybe cause its a honda

Try this:

http://www.zitog.com/xr-001.shtml#top

This is the one I was thinking of, just took me a while to find it.