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bad80cj-7 · 07-28-2003, 05:41 PM

Roxy, you are 100% correct it does take two. But guys can get very manipulative and we can get what we want if we play it right

offroadr35 · 07-28-2003, 05:43 PM

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Originally posted by bad80cj-7
Roxy, you are 100% correct it does take two. But guys can get very manipulative and we can get what we want if we play it right

oh yeah, girls are so stupid and helpless. they can't possibly keep their wits around a cunning man

DieLucas! · 07-28-2003, 05:44 PM

Sure it takes two, and certainly Offwhorer is not solely to blame...but he presented the opportunity, and if he choose to act with class, this would have otherwise been another boring day in chit-chat.

You can speculate that she would have done the same with somebody else, but it wasn't somebody else, and you knew she had a boyfriend.

Sorry, but I'm not going to sit back and condone this behavior; especially not in a society where social values are quickly disappearing for instant gratification.

Rip DeLips · 07-28-2003, 05:47 PM

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Originally posted by bad80cj-7

I'm in the middle of a of a situation that was started by a peice of shit just like you! You are a Fawktard that deserves nothing in life and will rot in hell!

If you don't like my comment to Fawking bad!

You are a peice of shit!

Just lay back in this chair, relax, and tell how me how you feel about the girl in this situation. Does she hold any responsibility or blame in this situation?

I don't get the whole "You fucker! You stole my girl! I'm gunna kill you!!! Arghhhh!!!" mentality. Just cut your losses. Move forward, and realize she is a tramp that would have eventually pulled your heart out of your chest with her bare hands anyway, driven her high heel through it, then kicked it down the gutter while you watched.

Seriously. I don't get it. How is it always the 'other guys' fault.

I easily can see some intial anger, but reality should swing some of that anger towards your ex.

bad80cj-7 · 07-28-2003, 05:48 PM

As you can tell by my post count I just don't post much, but this assholes arogance has got me Fawking pissed off. Offroad you act just like the same guy that has helped ruin my marriage. You are going to get hostility from me whether you like it or not Fawker! Did I mention you are a peice of shit that I scape from my shoe on occasion? Fawker.

bad80cj-7 · 07-28-2003, 05:53 PM

Rip, trust me there is tons of hostility there towards the soon to be exwife. I just had a bad day of dealing with the guy that has been trying to sweed my wife off her feet. He is a tard period.

offroadr35 · 07-28-2003, 05:53 PM

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Originally posted by bad80cj-7
As you can tell by my post count I just don't post much, but this assholes arogance has got me Fawking pissed off. Offroad you act just like the same guy that has helped ruin my marriage. You are going to get hostility from me whether you like it or not Fawker! Did I mention you are a peice of shit that I scape from my shoe on occasion? Fawker.

i really don't care but maybe we can help you work through some of your anger.

Possibly it would help for you to view the situation as a blessing in disguise like rip was suggesting rather than feeling sorry for yourself and angry at everyone else. You're better off without the bitch. This way you get a shot at true love.

-Steve

DieLucas! · 07-28-2003, 05:54 PM

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Originally posted by Rip DeLips
Seriously. I don't get it. How is it always the 'other guys' fault. I easily can see some intial anger, but reality should swing some of that anger towards your ex.

If you knew the woman was spoken for, even if she makes the first move, then you should have turned around and left the situation.

Just because the woman played a part in the infidelity does not excuse the guy's actions...and vice-versa.

You knew she had a boyfriend and you pursued her anyway...likely with the intentions of the actions you committed.

So what are you more proud of? That she dumped her man and you got the girl? Or that you planned this out and succeeded?
Don't hate the playa, hate the game? If it's a game to you, as the previous 10 pages seem to suggest, then enjoy your short-lived glory

Roxywheels · 07-28-2003, 05:59 PM

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Originally posted by bad80cj-7
Roxy, you are 100% correct it does take two. But guys can get very manipulative and we can get what we want if we play it right

And the entire time you think you're manipulating us we're playing you like a fiddle!

Never underestimate a female! We let you think you've got the upper hand because thats what you want

bad80cj-7 · 07-28-2003, 05:59 PM

I don't even no what to say right now. You are right I have tons of issues to deal with right now and I have been in your shoes and really am not one who shoud talk. I just happened to reqad the first part of your post and allowed myself to get Fawking irate. As for feeling sorry formyself , no I feel sorry for our child who is about to become 3 years old and wonders why he can't stay with me over night or why I can only see him certain days or why I can't come inside of his MiMi's house and play with him. Faaaaawk is right I'm pissed off and feel like I'm loosing it.

Steve

Rip DeLips · 07-28-2003, 06:01 PM

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Originally posted by DieLucas!

If you knew the woman was spoken for, even if she makes the first move, then you should have turned around and left the situation.

Just because the woman played a part in the infidelity does not excuse the guy's actions...and vice-versa.

You knew she had a boyfriend and you pursued her anyway...likely with the intentions of the actions you committed.

So what are you more proud of? That she dumped her man and you got the girl? Or that you planned this out and succeeded?
Don't hate the playa, hate the game? If it's a game to you, as the previous 10 pages seem to suggest, then enjoy your short-lived glory

I can see where you are coming from, honestly. But if I meet a girl that appears to be the 'perfect' one for me and I don't think she is meeting her happiness quotient, I may act on it. I could play the holier-than-thou bit, but I'd be lying to you. It's not like she's married...and marriage is a crock of shit these days anyway.

offroadr35 · 07-28-2003, 06:04 PM

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Originally posted by bad80cj-7
I don't even no what to say right now. You are right I have tons of issues to deal with right now and I have been in your shoes and really am not one who shoud talk. I just happened to reqad the first part of your post and allowed myself to get Fawking irate. As for feeling sorry formyself , no I feel sorry for our child who is about to become 3 years old and wonders why he can't stay with me over night or why I can only see him certain days or why I can't come inside of his MiMi's house and play with him. Faaaaawk is right I'm pissed off and feel like I'm loosing it.

Steve

nothin i can say except i'm genuinely sorry man, that is a truly fucked up situation. cheating is one thing, messing around is one thing, doing any of the above with kids involved is a whole different animal. Good luck! remember first priority is always the kid.

-Steve

DieLucas! · 07-28-2003, 06:09 PM

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Originally posted by Rip DeLips

and marriage is a crock of shit these days anyway.

I'm 25 and I've been married for 6 years. It sounds a lot like you lack maturity, common sense, and respect, both for others and yourself.

You are certainly looking to be a model citizen...the future of America (please tell me you are not planning on attending law school). If you cannot respect the commitment and devotion within others' relationships, married or not, then you certainly will not respect it in your own.

offroadr35 · 07-28-2003, 06:12 PM

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Originally posted by DieLucas!

\If you cannot respect the commitment and devotion within others' relationships, married or not, then you certainly will not respect it in your own.

can you please explain your logic here? i have had a string of absolutely great relationships. i have always parted ways amicably with my exes and am friends to different extents with all of them. How do you logically make the jump from my indifference towards other people to assuming i am incapable of a relationship myself? It seems like there is faulty logic somewhere.

-Steve

Roxywheels · 07-28-2003, 06:12 PM

So what would you all have to say if out of all of this the chick became *the one* for Steve?? They fall madly in love and live happily ever after because she was his soul mate?? He's happy, she's happy...they're happy. Is is still an a$$hole then?? Why?? Because he found *the one*? Because she wasn't someone else's *one* and she knew that?? Everything happens for a reason people....good and bad...it all happens for a reason.

DieLucas! · 07-28-2003, 06:20 PM

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Originally posted by offroadr35

can you please explain your logic here? i have had a string of absolutely great relationships. i have always parted ways amicably with my exes and am friends to different extents with all of them. How do you logically make the jump from my indifference towards other people to assuming i am incapable of a relationship myself? It seems like there is faulty logic somewhere.

-Steve

1) "Marriage is a crock of shit"

Uh...you don't appear to respect marriage

2) you knew she still had a boyfriend, yet you made a move on her anyway

YOU FLAT FAWKIN' DID NOT RESPECT THE FACT SHE WAS STILL IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH ANOTHER GUY... This disrespects her and it disrespects the other guy.

And I did not say you were not capable of a relationship. I said you will likely not respect either the commitment or the devotion put into your own relationships. Get it? Just because the relationships ended amicably does not mean chit. My parents' marriage ended amicably, but it does not excuse the fact they did not respect the commitment of their marriage.

She did not respect the commitment she made to her previous boyfriend, and you did not respect their relationship.

How long have you known her? Couldn't wait even another day? Dude, score! Have another beer. Circle jerk in the basement at midnight.

bad80cj-7 · 07-28-2003, 06:22 PM

Sorry for my rant. I'm just going through what feels like hell right now and snap every so often when I read stuff like this. No hard feelings towards you. I just am frustrated with my situation and have no answer to why I'm in this situation in the first place.

and to you Roxy you statement is truly valid and understood, it is just hard to swollow!

DieLucas! · 07-28-2003, 06:22 PM

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Originally posted by Roxywheels
Is he still an a$$hole then?? Why??

For parading this escapade online.

If she turns out to be the woman for him, then great. I wish sucess to their relationship. But Steve's attitude throughout this thread, more so than his actions, mark him for a$$hole status.

[edit: Steve, if you don't get it yet, then show your new GF this thread. Would she be proud of the way you have portrayed *your relationship*?]

Roxywheels · 07-28-2003, 06:23 PM

So many vaginas...so little sand

Doug K · 07-28-2003, 06:24 PM

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Originally posted by bad80cj-7
Fawker! Did I mention you are a peice of shit that I scape from my shoe on occasion? Fawker.

If he is like the Guy who stole your old lady he is scraping people like you off HIS shoes... worthless beta males.

Doug

Rip DeLips · 07-28-2003, 06:24 PM

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Originally posted by Roxywheels
Everything happens for a reason people....good and bad...it all happens for a reason.

I, Rip DeLips, the scourge of the earth, do hereby recognize and acknowledge this.

For the record...I have never cheated on a girl I was dating, nor ever will. However, if I find 'the one' for me and she's not married, it's fair game.

DieLucas! · 07-28-2003, 06:25 PM

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Originally posted by Roxywheels
So many vaginas...so little sand

It would take a beachfull, Roxy

offroadr35 · 07-28-2003, 06:26 PM

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Originally posted by DieLucas!

YOU FLAT FAWKIN' DID NOT RESPECT THE FACT SHE WAS STILL IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH ANOTHER GUY

we're beating a dead horse but basically my point is, why should i? no one has come up with an answer for this except for some bullshit man code. I personally think the guys who believe that they need a "man code" to protect them and their girlfriends are just chauvanistic and lack self confidence. I cannot see any other logic behind it. You should take pride in the fact that your girlfriend is with you out of her own free will, not because the man code makes her unapproachable. I could argue that it is those who rely on a crutch such as this unearned respect are the ones that don't respect the commitment.

-Steve

offroadr35 · 07-28-2003, 06:27 PM

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Originally posted by DieLucas!

For parading this escapade online.

just tryin to entertain y'all

bad80cj-7 · 07-28-2003, 06:27 PM

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Originally posted by Doug K

If he is like the Guy who stole your old lady he is scraping people like you off HIS shoes... worthless beta males.

Doug

Please elaborate as to why you felt like chimimng in?

07-28-2003, 05:44 PM	#253 (permalink)
DieLucas! Registered User Join Date: Aug 2002 Member # 13412 Location: Chawlston Posts: 1,773	Sure it takes two, and certainly Offwhorer is not solely to blame...but he presented the opportunity, and if he choose to act with class, this would have otherwise been another boring day in chit-chat. You can speculate that she would have done the same with somebody else, but it wasn't somebody else, and you knew she had a boyfriend. Sorry, but I'm not going to sit back and condone this behavior; especially not in a society where social values are quickly disappearing for instant gratification. __________________ Elitist Know-It-All

07-28-2003, 06:12 PM	#265 (permalink)
Roxywheels Girly Bender Join Date: Sep 2000 Member # 1842 Location: In the Pink! Posts: 21,640	So what would you all have to say if out of all of this the chick became the one for Steve?? They fall madly in love and live happily ever after because she was his soul mate?? He's happy, she's happy...they're happy. Is is still an a$$hole then?? Why?? Because he found the one? Because she wasn't someone else's one and she knew that?? Everything happens for a reason people....good and bad...it all happens for a reason. __________________ inthePINKracing would like to thank it's sponsors! Marlin Crawler Griffin Yukon Gear BFGoodrich Artec Industries FOA Raceline Poly Performance RuffStuff Magnum Ink Hendrix Motorsports Cupcake Jihad!!! I'm not a bitch, I just play one in your life

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Roxywheels Girly Bender Join Date: Sep 2000 Member # 1842 Location: In the Pink! Posts: 21,640	So many vaginas...so little sand __________________ inthePINKracing would like to thank it's sponsors! Marlin Crawler Griffin Yukon Gear BFGoodrich Artec Industries FOA Raceline Poly Performance RuffStuff Magnum Ink Hendrix Motorsports Cupcake Jihad!!! I'm not a bitch, I just play one in your life

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07-28-2003, 05:41 PM	#251 (permalink)
bad80cj-7 Registered User Join Date: Jan 2001 Member # 2785 Location: Raised Santa Cruz Mountains CA, Live in Auburn AL Posts: 571	Roxy, you are 100% correct it does take two. But guys can get very manipulative and we can get what we want if we play it right

07-28-2003, 05:48 PM	#255 (permalink)
bad80cj-7 Registered User Join Date: Jan 2001 Member # 2785 Location: Raised Santa Cruz Mountains CA, Live in Auburn AL Posts: 571	As you can tell by my post count I just don't post much, but this assholes arogance has got me Fawking pissed off. Offroad you act just like the same guy that has helped ruin my marriage. You are going to get hostility from me whether you like it or not Fawker! Did I mention you are a peice of shit that I scape from my shoe on occasion? Fawker.

07-28-2003, 05:53 PM	#256 (permalink)
bad80cj-7 Registered User Join Date: Jan 2001 Member # 2785 Location: Raised Santa Cruz Mountains CA, Live in Auburn AL Posts: 571	Rip, trust me there is tons of hostility there towards the soon to be exwife. I just had a bad day of dealing with the guy that has been trying to sweed my wife off her feet. He is a tard period.

07-28-2003, 05:59 PM	#260 (permalink)
bad80cj-7 Registered User Join Date: Jan 2001 Member # 2785 Location: Raised Santa Cruz Mountains CA, Live in Auburn AL Posts: 571	I don't even no what to say right now. You are right I have tons of issues to deal with right now and I have been in your shoes and really am not one who shoud talk. I just happened to reqad the first part of your post and allowed myself to get Fawking irate. As for feeling sorry formyself , no I feel sorry for our child who is about to become 3 years old and wonders why he can't stay with me over night or why I can only see him certain days or why I can't come inside of his MiMi's house and play with him. Faaaaawk is right I'm pissed off and feel like I'm loosing it. Steve

07-28-2003, 06:22 PM	#267 (permalink)
bad80cj-7 Registered User Join Date: Jan 2001 Member # 2785 Location: Raised Santa Cruz Mountains CA, Live in Auburn AL Posts: 571	Sorry for my rant. I'm just going through what feels like hell right now and snap every so often when I read stuff like this. No hard feelings towards you. I just am frustrated with my situation and have no answer to why I'm in this situation in the first place. and to you Roxy you statement is truly valid and understood, it is just hard to swollow!