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Old 10-12-2012, 02:19 PM   #101 (permalink)
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See you fail to realize that you and this girls parents probably think alike and have no backbone and feel this is a problem the authority's should handle. You are one of those " hands off approach" people and would never survive without someone holding your hand through life.

E bullying is easier to avoid than old school bullying where your constantly getting your ass whooped, you can hit the power button and their gone! Don't give me no bullshit about its impossible, kids have retarted short attention spans and would move on to something else if they were receiving no response.
I am very far from being a "hands off" approach guy and have survived very well without someone holding my hand through life. I do believe that the parents failed and not every situation is something the authorities need to be involved in. I don't, however, subscribe to the mentality that a bully has the right to continue to his behavior until the victim kicks his ass or brings a gun to a fist fight.

As for e-bullying being easier to deal with than physical abuse, you really don't know what you're talking about. Ask anyone that's ever been abused and they will tell you that getting your ass kicked is much easier than mental abuse.

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Old 10-12-2012, 02:22 PM   #102 (permalink)
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Lets say being a bully becomes something to be arrested for. So your being picked on and instead of taking the path of avoidance and the whole situation going away. You now have the ability to press charges cause Darrel called you a slut and fat. So Darrel get pissed even more cause he now has a criminal record and now want vengeance. He no longer has in his mind no choice other than getting even, yeah that sounds like a good idea
You're an idiot. That's like saying that if you press charges against a guy that broke into your house that now he's going to be pissed and come back and do it again because he has a criminal record.

As for Darrell, what happens is that Darrell spends some time with guys that are bigger and harder than him and realizes that he's not the tough guy he thinks he is. Take a look at Beyond Scared Straight sometime. All those kids realize that they're not as tough as they think they are.

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Old 10-12-2012, 02:25 PM   #103 (permalink)
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As for e-bullying being easier to deal with than physical abuse, you really don't know what you're talking about. Ask anyone that's ever been abused and they will tell you that getting your ass kicked is much easier than mental abuse.
If I call you a moron again, are you going to accuse me of mental abuse and a hate crime?
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Old 10-12-2012, 02:26 PM   #104 (permalink)
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As for e-bullying being easier to deal with than physical abuse, you really don't know what you're talking about. Ask anyone that's ever been abused and they will tell you that getting your ass kicked is much easier than mental abuse.

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WHAT you smoking crack? How fucking hard is it to just turn your fucking computer off or not visit fagbook? That's more difficult and harder to do then get your ass kicked?
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Old 10-12-2012, 02:28 PM   #105 (permalink)
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I'm saying that physical abuse is easier to deal with than mental abuse.

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You're an idiot. That's like saying that if you press charges against a guy that broke into your house that now he's going to be pissed and come back and do it again because he has a criminal record.

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He's not going to come back and rob your house again when he gets back out, he's going to hunt you down and hurt/kill you see.
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I'm saying that physical abuse is easier to deal with than mental abuse.

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Walk away from the computer and you won't be mentally abused, and neither will we.
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Well said dieselMh.

All I got from that video was waaaah me.

You can see it plain as day when she shows the card "....He hooked up with me...."



Chick went knowingly to a guys house who had a GF and then HE hooked up with HER. Against her will? Yea right.

She made a shit ton of bad decisions, her parents are fucking douche nozzles, and wherever the guy is that was preying on her emotions online should be beaten for fucking with her and spreading child porn around.

Fail after fail after fail..........
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Old 10-12-2012, 02:32 PM   #109 (permalink)
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Walk away from the computer and you won't be mentally abused, and neither will we.
Did you not read the article? This went beyond the computer.

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You're an idiot. That's like saying that if you press charges against a guy that broke into your house that now he's going to be pissed and come back and do it again because he has a criminal record.

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Dumb fuck, read my post. Don't turn something completely avoidable into a drawn out reason for someone to want to ruin your life. Don't try and change my wording and act like I was saying that just keeping your mouth shut is always best. There are reasons to involve the authority's such as bad assault, but we don't need the mean word police you jackass!!
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Did you not read the article? This went beyond the computer.

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Yeah cause instead of completely avoiding the situation, she went and fucked some dude with a girlfriend. Stop being such a douche.
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If I call you a moron again, are you going to accuse me of mental abuse and a hate crime?
No, because I could really give a shit less. I've been called worse by better.

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No, because I could really give a shit less. I've been called worse by better.

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wHich helps prove everyones point... But your own.
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Old 10-12-2012, 03:11 PM   #114 (permalink)
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wHich helps prove everyones point... But your own.
There's a difference, I'm an adult that has learned to cope with BS over the years. I'm also over 20 years removed from 14 or 15. A lot of you are looking at this from an adult mentality, not an immature girl's.

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There's a difference, I'm an adult that has learned to cope with BS over the years. I'm also over 20 years removed from 14 or 15. A lot of you are looking at this from an adult mentality, not an immature girl's.

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True but (for my part) i was also posting my opinion from someone who was picked on quite a bit because i was really shy and awkward till everything started straightening it self out around 15 or so.

I came home one day upset because some kids we saying something about me. I don't remember what it was but i remember being upset and waiting in the art room till the busses were gone and then walking home. My dad talked to me about it and asked if what they were saying was true. I said no. so he said ignore it. I asked what do i do if they keep saying it. He said "punch them in the mouth". I said i would get in trouble. He said "not from me, sometimes you need to make a stand and take the consequences".

Couple days later they were at it again in Gym class and i just snapped and cold clocked the kid. Down he went and then his friends started hitting me. I just kept throwing punches. It seemed like a long time but it was probably a few min before it got broken up. Got suspended for 2 days. Went dirtbike riding with dad. Things were better after that. It was worth the fat lip i got.

My dad being the adult did not solve my problem. He gave me the confidence and the guidance to solve it myself. That is what i think is missing in this story
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Well said dieselMh.

All I got from that video was waaaah me.

You can see it plain as day when she shows the card "....He hooked up with me...."



Chick went knowingly to a guys house who had a GF and then HE hooked up with HER. Against her will? Yea right.

She made a shit ton of bad decisions, her parents are fucking douche nozzles, and wherever the guy is that was preying on her emotions online should be beaten for fucking with her and spreading child porn around.

Fail after fail after fail..........
That's what I picked up from the video as well, removing personal responsibility from fucking some due with a girlfriend.

I even thought about that slide, "why so vague?" Oh, so you don't actually have to say you fucked the dude.

Lots of bad decisions, and what appeared to cries for attention (Od'ing, cutting, drinking, etc). Shitty no-one was giving her the attention she needed.



On a side note, where are all the boys in these grades? There's a girl showing off her body, fucking other dudes, ... how come there wasn't a line-up of boys knocking on the door??? She looked quite pretty.
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Seems like it would be fairly easy to turn the computer off and walk away. But that's just me.
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Seems like it would be fairly easy to turn the computer off and walk away. But that's just me.
yup and you also need to be able to shut it off in your head. Shutting off the PC and worrying about what is going on for the next 15 hours does nothing to help.
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yup and you also need to be able to shut it off in your head. Shutting off the PC and worrying about what is going on for the next 15 hours does nothing to help.
Im so glad to be away from phone/computer/reality on vacation, I don't think that would be that difficult.

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There's a difference, I'm an adult that has learned to cope with BS over the years. I'm also over 20 years removed from 14 or 15. A lot of you are looking at this from an adult mentality, not an immature girl's.

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that just makes you a hypocrite. You absolve one person because of age and demand hate crime charges against someone of the same age. One person bears mo responsibility in your world while another bears full responsibility. That's true liberalism for ya. Well done.
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There's a difference, I'm an adult that has learned to cope with BS over the years. I'm also over 20 years removed from 14 or 15. A lot of you are looking at this from an adult mentality, not an immature girl's.

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So to completely make your stance on bully police beyond stupid. You said you "learned to cope with BS over the years". Well if kids know they will go to jail for calling Sue fat, they wont do it under your "theory".
So Sue wont have to ever deal with being harassed and lifes gonna be all peachy right?
What about when she turns 18, gets a job at the local burger joint and Tina thinks shes a fat ass slut and starts talking shit on fagbook?
Well Sue has never had the opportunity to see the "real world" till now and goes into deep depression because of some stupid comments. She calls the meany police and they tell her "welcome to earth, deal with it".
Then what? Do we change more laws? Do we start arresting adults for this shit? Half the assholes including me would be in jail!
Fuck I would get 3 felonies and a life sentence for the post I have made to you in this thread!

So to sum up your theory, you are a moron. I learned the most between the ages of 5 and 18. I learned that there are evil people, nice people and idiots like you. I took so much from it and couldnt imagine being thrown to to wolves because my whole life was a bubble cause a bunch of jackass douches like your self voted to arrest anyone who was a dick.

I dont touch hot surfaces, eat yellow snow, fuck with people that can whoop my ass and most of all, dont give a fuck what some ass clown like yourself thinks of me. Why? Because I was once a child and then a teen without big brother holding my hand the whole way

Now paypal me $ or im gonna call you gay and your gonna go cry and slit your wrist.
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I can't say she isn't partially to blame for her bullying as she did bring some of it on herself, but I always hate to hear someone committing suicide especially at that age.
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Old 10-12-2012, 06:55 PM   #123 (permalink)
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+1 for facebook & kids ..... parents fault for not pulling it on her

PBB needs a new insult, bleach does not work

This is why you teach you kids how to punch back

-1 for the police = never found the guy

-1 for the parents = kid had free reign of net

-1 for the parents not stepping in earlier
-10 for society making everything PC so that everyone becomes wuss.
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There is a POWER OFF button on these fancy computers.....
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looks like interweb people may have found the creeper who was stalking her. Sounds like he done it to another underage girl a few years back as well.

edit: and it wasn't a boob picture she was so upset about...more or less a masturbation video. Many bad choices that seems to be a norm with girls her age now, but none the less it went too far.
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