Im not trying to pick on you or say that the ex is guilty of anything. I know the system is fucked up and victimizes innocent people just to generate revenue for the county or state court systems. There is a lot going on that's hard to explain and just know that neither one of us would let anything happen to the daughter. He can be in town and not say anything to us to let us try and arrange a meeting so she can see her dad or we all go out to eat just so she can see her dad more than once a year at Christmas if she is luck. She is slowly realizing he is a piece of shit and is starting to not care if she sees him anyways. She pretty much calls me dad now but me having kids prior to now I know I couldn't live without being a part of my kids life. I just have to realize not every dad is like me.