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Old 08-29-2017, 08:34 AM   #101 (permalink)
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Holy shit man. Any woman that tells you to make sure your guns are locked up because she is crazy is not long term dating material.
We talked about that quite a bit. She has done her best to try and warn me, but to also look back at the situation she was in, her ex was pushing her buttons on purpose. Cheating on her and texting her pics of it.
Things I would never do.
So am I naive to think it would be different with me?

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1. You're 49, she's 32, if she was a very mature 33, maybe... you need therapy.

2. She has a history of misuse and abuse, she needs therapy, not just drugs.

3. I've read nothing about common values. This is not the same as common interests.
Awesome input.
I am the one that has always had a problem with the age difference and pushed her away because of it. But I am young looking and active and have dated women 10 years younger than me. It seems normal to them or so they tell me.

She has been to rehab and still attends a support group. Four years now. Her actions tell me she doesn't want to use them.
But that is why I am here. I want it dissected and torn apart to see if it can still hold water.
Not like anyone would ever post here for moral support.

Common values are what kept bringing us back together. God,Kids and family are the most important. Everything else is after that. Right and wrong. We share the same ideals.
Unless of course it is all a lie, but I always ran into her and kid functions so I know it can't all be a lie.
It is actually kind of creepy how compatible we are.
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Old 08-29-2017, 08:39 AM   #102 (permalink)
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Lol... You are either a troll or an idiot.
There is the classic PBB,

If I was an idiot I think the title would read, help I married a woman knocked up and on xanax.
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Old 08-29-2017, 08:41 AM   #103 (permalink)
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There is the classic PBB,

If I was an idiot I think the title would read, help I married a woman knocked up and on xanax.
Sounds like you are heading that way... Unless she kills you fist. Which, in her defense, if she does at least she warned you it might happen
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Old 08-29-2017, 08:44 AM   #104 (permalink)
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Well, does she spit or swallow?
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There is the classic PBB,

If I was an idiot ....
No, classic PBB would be you posting pics of her butthole. So yes, you are indeed the idiot here.
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does she have a job?
does she have marketable job skills?
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does she have a job?
does she have marketable job skills?
I think you just asked the same question I did....
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Old 08-29-2017, 08:56 AM   #108 (permalink)
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does she have a job?
does she have marketable job skills?
Yes she has a good job and has had it for 4 years.

That is why it is so hard for me to cut and run. She seems to be pretty stable.
But I don't understand drugs at all.
So it sounds like I need to hold off and let the relationship fall apart rather than actually try to build something with her.

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No, classic PBB would be you posting pics of her butthole. So yes, you are indeed the idiot here.
Well ya got me there. You are correct.
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Old 08-29-2017, 09:00 AM   #109 (permalink)
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No essay from me, my story is here from six or so years ago.

1. You're 49, she's 32, if she was a very mature 33, maybe... you need therapy.

2. She has a history of misuse and abuse, she needs therapy, not just drugs.

3. I've read nothing about common values. This is not the same as common interests.

Conclusion; walk away, she has daddy issues, needs help, doesn't want help. Be polite, be honorable.
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We talked about that quite a bit. She has done her best to try and warn me, but to also look back at the situation she was in, her ex was pushing her buttons on purpose. Cheating on her and texting her pics of it.
Things I would never do.
So am I naive to think it would be different with me?



Awesome input.
I am the one that has always had a problem with the age difference and pushed her away because of it. But I am young looking and active and have dated women 10 years younger than me. It seems normal to them or so they tell me.

She has been to rehab and still attends a support group. Four years now. Her actions tell me she doesn't want to use them.
But that is why I am here. I want it dissected and torn apart to see if it can still hold water.
Not like anyone would ever post here for moral support.

Common values are what kept bringing us back together. God,Kids and family are the most important. Everything else is after that. Right and wrong. We share the same ideals.
Unless of course it is all a lie, but I always ran into her and kid functions so I know it can't all be a lie.
It is actually kind of creepy how compatible we are.
ask yourself, if she was 17 years older and everything is as it is now, are you still wondering if this is a good realtionship?

red flags...
widow
drug user to cope.
dating someone so much older.
aware of her ability to snap("lock the guns")

please move her in and update us with all the ensuing drama and violence. can't wait, ends well.

or

grow the fuck up, take a look at where you are and the choices you make. say bye and find someone not on drugs, not a widow and somewhat closer to your age.

i will not date anyone on rx drugs or that lives on otc drugs as there are many out there not living that choice lifestyle. i want to know the person i am with is who she is, not an illusion created by anti depressants, anti anxiety or sleep pills.
yes, many on here are drugged to the hilt as are many spouses and gf's of pbb members, but you have a choice to make and if you choose a rx drug user, it will not lessen over time, it will accumulate to cope with all her baggage.
you are not 20, use the brain you have and make the right but hard decision.
as you are not a pill popper of rx or otc drugs, good luck dealing with her.
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Old 08-29-2017, 09:13 AM   #110 (permalink)
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She seems to be pretty stable.



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yet you are here asking our advice

if in doubt .... run
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If you decide to cut ties, make her break up with you.
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Old 08-29-2017, 09:21 AM   #112 (permalink)
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If you decide to cut ties, make her break up with you.
Been thinking about that as we speak.

Not sure how to do that and not end up dead or have my windows broken out. LOL.

Actually I think it will happen on its own. I am a pretty boring person.
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Start being a disgusting slob. Go for the 3 way with her friend. 3 way with your friend. Try to fulfill all of that shit that you want to do. In the process maybe you can pawn her off onto someone else. Talk her into moving off somewhere else. Sign her up on some dating sites.

I'm sure you will get other ideas...
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Start being a disgusting slob. Go for the 3 way with her friend. 3 way with your friend. Try to fulfill all of that shit that you want to do. In the process maybe you can pawn her off onto someone else. Talk her into moving off somewhere else. Sign her up on some dating sites.

I'm sure you will get other ideas...
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Old 08-29-2017, 10:00 AM   #115 (permalink)
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Start being a disgusting slob. Go for the 3 way with her friend. 3 way with your friend. Try to fulfill all of that shit that you want to do. In the process maybe you can pawn her off onto someone else. Talk her into moving off somewhere else. Sign her up on some dating sites.

I'm sure you will get other ideas...
All this.

And start with posting the noods of her on here.
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You should "lock up the guns" is the deal breaker for me. That is a red flag, wrapped in red flags, inside a box that says Red Flag on it, shoved up your ass.
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page 3 and no pics, moving on...
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Don't think you are getting the advice from people that don't know wtf they are talking about. Some of us have goddamned lived it. Did we listen? Fuck no and still paying for it
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Start being a disgusting slob. Go for the 3 way with her friend. 3 way with your friend. Try to fulfill all of that shit that you want to do. In the process maybe you can pawn her off onto someone else. Talk her into moving off somewhere else. Sign her up on some dating sites.

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We talked about that quite a bit. She has done her best to try and warn me, but to also look back at the situation she was in, her ex was pushing her buttons on purpose. Cheating on her and texting her pics of it.
Things I would never do.
So am I naive to think it would be different with me?

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Do you spose Siegfried & Roy are pissed at the Lion for fucking one of them up? Can they be? After all, they are the dipshits trying to tame a cat. Cats are assholes regardless of their size.

You can't be mad at her when she try's to stab you with a can opener. But i'd enjoy the ride for a little while. The 3 way angle is what i'd pursue.
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You should "lock up the guns" is the deal breaker for me. That is a red flag, wrapped in red flags, inside a box that says Red Flag on it, shoved up your ass.
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i will not date anyone on rx drugs or that lives on otc drugs as there are many out there not living that choice lifestyle. i want to know the person i am with is who she is, not an illusion created by anti depressants, anti anxiety or sleep pills.
yes, many on here are drugged to the hilt as are many spouses and gf's of pbb members, but you have a choice to make and if you choose a rx drug user, it will not lessen over time, it will accumulate to cope with all her baggage.
you are not 20, use the brain you have and make the right but hard decision.
as you are not a pill popper of rx or otc drugs, good luck dealing with her.
I did this. I picked the right one. No drugs at all, everything seemed perfect. Everyone adored her. Turns out she has boderline personality disorder and possibly bi polar. No meds. She hid from me for almost 3 years. I was married to her for 10 before she ran off with some other guy and left me with her kids.
Nobody believed she had issues except me and the kids. But her mom has it, I later found out. Looks like her daughter does too.
Now finally ending up in the hospital after a suicide attempt other people are starting to see a crack in the shell she worked so hard to form.
I am very aware of my choices, I stayed with her because she was basically a retarded child. Who would abandon someone like that? I made a promise to God and I stuck to it.
She left me, so no guilt here.

There are lots of widowed people in my age range. Not all from drugs.

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Don't think you are getting the advice from people that don't know wtf they are talking about. Some of us have goddamned lived it. Did we listen? Fuck no and still paying for it
This is exactly what I was looking for. I was on the fence. I have lived it too. The drugs are a new spin for me. They are something I cannot understand or begin to comprehend.

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page 3 and no pics, moving on...
You know, I would post pics, but you guys have me breaking up with her so it is now illegal.
I don't think I could ever do that to someone without consent, sorry.
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Cats are assholes regardless of their size.

The 3 way angle is what i'd pursue.
Cats are evil. Lmao

Nope if it is over it is over. I can't use someone like that. I am not built that way.
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OP is possibly a troll but if not is mentally unstable himself. If you doubt read just his posts in this thread in succession. He is all over the place in what he is saying.
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Start being a disgusting slob. Go for the 3 way with her friend. 3 way with your friend. Try to fulfill all of that shit that you want to do. In the process maybe you can pawn her off onto someone else. Talk her into moving off somewhere else. Sign her up on some dating sites.

I'm sure you will get other ideas...
But first, post some pics of her twat, then show her you're bragging about her on the internet....

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