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I don't know for our situation. I think it's mostly just different. Depending on the offense, I'll usually just drop with them for pushups or burpies. Mom will beat their asses faster than I will. I'm not opposed and will as well on occasion, but I figure if I can do something that benefits them physically as well, win-win. Overall, my kids are really well behaved, but I recognize that they need play time or I have to be on them a lot - which sucks for all of us. Even #4 listens... she just figures out loop holes. :mad3:

As an aside, my oldest is one of the few in her class that can make it 50 yards in the wheel barrow race and #2 kicks ass on the monkey bars. :laughing:

Easiest way to cure pain in my experience is to say playtime is over, time for bed. Pure fucking magic.
I should have said in my experience :laughing:
Spanking isn't the only way to discipline. I think you're on the right track with physical labor over pain. My 2 older kids are swimmers and soccer players. They can usually outlast the other kids in their classes when it comes to stamina. Most of their friends have no rules when it comes to video games and internet play. My #3 is smart (line the others) but less physical when it comes to sports, but she is very regulated on video games and Internet use like the older 2. She just loves playing board games and being creative more than she likes sports. Our 4 th loves physical games, and being creative as well. She seems like she may be our most active. Might be the most intelligent too, can count to 13 proficiently, and does her ABC right along with you at only 2 1/2 years old.
 

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She doesn't throw all out fits as it doesn't get her anything; she's just mean. She plays with other kids by slapping them. She's getting better as she's starting to understand why she's being disciplined. They all get their fair share of ass beatings. I can't stand undisciplined kids and get irritated by their parents more, especially when they start whining about how their kids run their house.

I didn't mean to give the impression that she's undisciplined. She is just a prick.
Totally get it man... it isn't always the parents. Some kids just require more work than others, and some are just little shits. They just come that way, nothing to do with the parents... they always get the wrap, but it truly is NOT the parents fault.

I have a nephew that was raised right by his parents. I saw the upbringing. The kid is good but has issues.... like fukwad penis issues.
 

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Would she snap out of it if you dumped a cup of ice water on her? Face probably isn't a good idea, maybe chest or stomach.
Probably a bad idea, shocking her awake is not likely what is needed. Beside the fact that if she's out for 30 seconds, you have to prepare a cup of ice water. Could you do it in less than 30 seconds:flipoff2:
 

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Totally get it man... it isn't always the parents. Some kids just require more work than others, and some are just little shits. They just come that way, nothing to do with the parents... they always get the wrap, but it truly is NOT the parents fault.

I have a nephew that was raised right by his parents. I saw the upbringing. The kid is good but has issues.... like fukwad penis issues.
Exactly, the brain works in different ways in different people. It's the coddling that fucks kids up. My other sil is a total bitch, she was coddled her whole life, and at 34 her parents are taking care of her and her illegitimate child :shaking:even though she has a full time teaching job (yup she's a fucking teacher) and part time Internet teaching jobs, they still pay for literally everything because she has retarded spending habits. She had lived with them for over a year, and it's getting worse. She expects her parents to take care of her child about 8 hours of the day, even if she's home. Btw, her daughter acts EXACTLY like her, but our kids are always at fault if her kid doesn't veer her way and my kids are around :shaking:i can't stand being around any of them anymore....:mad3:
 

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Sounds to me that she is suffering from some anxiety issues. With the silent screaming and the lack of O2 getting to her and then passing out. Once she passes out does her body go back to breathing normally or do you have to take charge and get her breathing again (the blowing in the face)? I would seriously look into some of the brain mapping technology they have now (its tough to get it though).

Im not a advocate for meds, but they do have some out there that will help with 'tudes and anxiety. My son is on a low, low dose of Gabapentin (4 mg) and Abilify (2mg). I dont suggest the Gabapentin, but the Abilify helps him get through the day. Of course this child was adopted out of foster care so we face some way different issues. If you do go this route, make sure you can trust your Dr. and make sure they are not just a pill pusher (yes, they are out there). My son's Dr. is not one to just give a pill to "calm them down". We have been seeing him for a long time and he recognizes that he does actually have a problem.

Most times I would just agree that let her pass out, as she should start breathing on her own, but have seen some really bazaar behaviors out of some really messed up kids (foster care) sometimes they are doing it out of attention seeking, sometimes its because of some really messed up . suppressed fears, sometimes they are just plain assholes. Its takes a lot to figure out exactly which category they fall into,

I feel for ya. Im there a lot. And understand where your at. Hang in there.
 

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Sounds to me that she is suffering from some anxiety issues.....
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Oh, Geebus, here comes the helicopter parent with his employer's fat medical card, lookin' for drugs to disipline his children.

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Anyway, now it's a re-occurring thing. Every time she really hurts herself, she silent screams her way into unconsciousness; usually after hitting her head. My MIL was a nurse and started doing some research and making phone calls. Apparently, this is not a really uncommon thing. The trick is to make them lay down and blow into their face. Still a trip watching their eyes roll back. My wife has a mini-breakdown every time it happens.

Anyone else have these issues? We will talk to her doc about getting an MRI this week, but we're pretty confident that it will not show anything abnormal.
The blowing into their face trick is an old one. You do it for any kid that's lost their breath. I did it with my oldest when she silent screamed (which she did after hurting herself by tripping or something.) She didn't pull the other shenanigans though. My youngest however doesn't silent scream and is a complete PITA.
 

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What about a firm pat on the back? Like when someone's choking?

That would seem like it would "break" the trance.

I dunno. Haven't had lil' kids in decades.
Umm, no. Blow in their face. It works. Every. Single. Time.
 

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The blowing into their face trick is an old one. You do it for any kid that's lost their breath.
Like full-on mouth-to-mouth, or just a puff of air directed at them?

Not trying to be weird, just genuinely curious.
 

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She doesn't throw all out fits as it doesn't get her anything; she's just mean. She plays with other kids by slapping them. She's getting better as she's starting to understand why she's being disciplined. They all get their fair share of ass beatings. I can't stand undisciplined kids and get irritated by their parents more, especially when they start whining about how their kids run their house.

I didn't mean to give the impression that she's undisciplined. She is just a prick.
My youngest typically hits when she doesn't get her way. She gets either a spanking or a good loud yelling. She's getting better with other kids. I don't think you can talk them out of it at age 2. Mine is nearly 5 and is almost ready for kindergarten.
 

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Probably a bad idea, shocking her awake is not likely what is needed. Beside the fact that if she's out for 30 seconds, you have to prepare a cup of ice water. Could you do it in less than 30 seconds:flipoff2:
Definitely not quicker than filling up the lungs.
 

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Oh, Geebus, here comes the helicopter parent with his employer's fat medical card, lookin' for drugs to disipline his children.

:shaking:
Says the guy that thinks the Heimlich maneuver is the solution for everything.
 

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Oh, Geebus, here comes the helicopter parent with his employer's fat medical card, lookin' for drugs to disipline his children.

:shaking:
And fuck you. Helicopter parents. You know nothing of the life I lead and the things I deal with with foster children. I was raised on a ranch where it was do your chores of get your ass beat. I have had to learn a totally different way of parenting you fucking wise ass. Maybe you raised your kids totally different. maybe you didnt raise kids at all.

Its called a different perspective. This just shows how the fucking liberal left is so fucked up. My way is the only way so your wrong. Go fuck a wood chipper WHILE drinking your bleach. Twat knuckle....
 

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And fuck you. Helicopter parents. You know nothing of the life I lead and the things I deal with with foster children. I was raised on a ranch where it was do your chores of get your ass beat. I have had to learn a totally different way of parenting you fucking wise ass. Maybe you raised your kids totally different. maybe you didnt raise kids at all.

Its called a different perspective. This just shows how the fucking liberal left is so fucked up. My way is the only way so your wrong. Go fuck a wood chipper WHILE drinking your bleach. Twat knuckle....
Meh, I spent a few years as a foster parent myself, so yeah, I've seen some shit.


I never ran my kids to the doctor tho and insisted on a huge battery of tests, for something that a lil' googlin' would say is fairly normal.
 
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