what the hell are you designing?
if you have a standard 7 pin plug on the trailer there is no back feed it is the same 12 volts
installing a $40 diode doesn't make sense at all
just install spdt on-on switch in the back up light circuit
two 12 inputs: reverse light circuit and 12v constant
one output: to the lights
Well, I actually listened to what the OP wanted, and designed a circuit that was as simple as I could make it, while still providing what the OP wanted.
The "backfeed" isn't about the trailer battery charging the truck or whatever, it's simply about the truck reverse lights not coming on powered by the trailer battery, which makes sense as it will reduce the load on the trailer battery.
Wiring it like this you would ONLY ever be able to turn on the trailer reverse lights when the truck is connected.
I am thinking this set up, but move the spdt switches to before the relay.
Relay energized by truck reverse light - truck reverse light powers trailer lights
Relay un energized, trailer lights can be switched on be either spdt switch.
Can you draw what you're talking about here, and also explain what this change is meant to accomplish. I don't think this circuit will operate how you want.
I would like to be able to turn on the reverse/exterior lights on the trailer while plugged into the truck, and not have the reverse lights come on in the truck if it isn't running. The power in this situation would come from the trailer battery. Maybe it wouldn't back feed into the truck lights on the newer trucks but it seems like 20 minutes of wiring and a cheap relay totally isolates the systems.
This is the part that makes the diagram slightly more complicated, no big deal.
Please correct me if I am wrong on any of this, I'm pretty simple minded when it comes to electronics and wiring.
Will do.
If I'm not mistaken this will work, without the need for a diode.
That would work fine, except for the truck lights coming on from the trailer battery when the light switch is turned on, which OP doesn't want.
for the trailer battery to charge it needs to be connected to the truck
anytime you discharge the trailer battery while connected to the truck you also discharge the truck battery
if you install a diode the trailer battery will never charge
thousands upon thousands of trailers wire lights into switches
the only thing different you want is to be able to switch the reverse lights on independent of the truck
install a spdt switch will accomplish what you want, no diodes or relays required
lights on in one position, reverse lights in the other position; simple as that
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18W-FLOOD-CREE-LED-LIGHT-BAR-WORK-LAMP-FOG-12V
The trailer battery will still charge through the trucks "aux 12v/chargin" pin. We're not changing that circuit at all. The only thing the diode will do is prevent the trucks reverse lights from coming on from the trailers battery.
Just because "thousands of trailers" are wired one way, doesn't mean it's the right way. 99% of people who buy trailers don't give a damn how what's wired, nor could they even comprehend the differences if you tried to explain them.
-ogre, I know you're no dummy and you can read a print, so I don't understand why you're arguing against a requirement the OP wants.
I'm confused.
Why don't you draw up a sensible, simple as possible diagram with no relays or diodes that fullfills the OP's requirements:
*trailer reverse lights ALWAYS come on when truck is in reverse.
*trailer reverse lights are powered by truck when truck is plugged in and running.
*trailer reverse lights are powered by trailer battery when truck is not connected or running.
*truck reverse lights come on when truck is in reverse
*truck reverse lights are NEVER powered by trailer battery