I think you mean the bearings don't like the bending moment created from the leverage of the offset wheels. You're right, they aren't design for wide wheels and tires, however, assuming kingpins are the best design is not correct. Also, the Ford stuff isn't the only option. Chevy and Dodge have been making unit bearings for a long time and are very capable for our application including KOH.
Shortcuts in engineering lead to premature failure. Design your axles accordingly and your parts will last a long time. Bring your moment of inertia (AKA, center of mass) of your wheel as close to the center line of the bearings as possible. Typical spindles are the same way, they just have more bearing spacing, like you said.
The unit bearings are not actually weaker. Everything can be broken, everything can be worn out. Spidertrax uses uniballs instead of kingpins or ball joints. They survive KOH, but they can still be worn out. See where I'm going with this? Its about building your rig around the engineering and design in place already.
Same arguement as always, people step up to 1 tons because the axles can hold up to any design flaws (like large offsets and hard landings) but the real solution is just design and engineering.
Chromos, RCVs, new knuckles, and any other upgrades are just big band-aids for the initial problem of weak axles and big tires.
go big :grinpimp: